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Saturday, November 16, 2013

The Proposal (:


Hey Everyone!

I have some big news...I AM ENGAGED! ah I am so ecstatic, happy, excited, giddy, and anxious! Really, I wish it was already January 4th. I can't wait to marry the crap out of that man. haha


Give a big warm welcome to my fiancé; Zachary Baxter. He is the bees knees.

Anyways, I know everyone has been asking for two things; 1) "How did he propose?" & 2) "goodness girl, let me see that ring!"

So ill be honest, I was starting to get a bit irritated that he hadn't actually proposed, my poor boyfriend probably would be a millionaire if he got a dime for every time I asked when he was going to. Call me crazy, but we had set our temple date for over a month without us even being engaged, so you can imagine I was getting a bit antsy pantsy. Oh and the fun fact that he somehow made every date seem like he was going to pop the question, not funny. So it was 11.12.13 the day that he asked, (isn't that fun?) and me and my best friend; Nellie were at my wedding dress fitting and I was just standing there in my dress all mad that I'm in this beautiful gown, about to get married in less than 2 months, and not even technically engaged yet and so i'm letting this steam off at my girlfriend and she's like oh karlie...just be patient, and i retort..don't you think I've been patient enough?! little did I know she knew what was going to be happening later that day. So I get this text from Zac saying; "Hey Babe, lets meet at in n out at 6, you game?" And I'm like fo sho. Okay, lets be honest, I didn't say fo sho. Anyways so I head to in n out and walk in the door looking for Zac, but instead I see my two best friends; Chelsea and Nellie 

They go ahead and tell me that they are my escorts for the evening and proceeded to take away my phone, also telling me that we are going lingerie shopping and helping chels to find a dress to emerald ball..what a bunch of sneaks! haha. Anyways, the evening actually planned was a scavenger hunt, and it was so much fun! I'll go ahead and tell you the significance for each location because I didn't take pictures of all the "clues." So In-N-Out is significant because mine and Zac's second kiss was to the song "A whole new world" in the movie Aladdin; I was singing the Jasmine part and all of a sudden, Zac just leaned over and kissed me. It was great, and really cute. Anyways one evening we were hungry and it was midnight and we live in Provo, so naturally the only place open was In N out. So we drive to in n out, go through the Drive Thru and we are sitting in his car eating, and a whole new world comes on, I don't exactly remember whose idea it was but somehow we ended up on TOP of his car, with the windows down, singing a whole new world at the top of our lungs, all the while cars stopped and parked behind us to watch us sing. Which led me to this clue; 


His car was parked out front (how I didn't see it, is beyond me) and obviously the clue was on top 
Which then took me to where we first met, at work about a year and a half ago.

We both used to work at a company called Bluehost, and funny enough, in the first building we worked at, we used to share a desk, and I'd leave notes for him saying things like "have a good day" or "try to keep the desk clean." just funny things. He thought I was a flirt and I thought he was a major nerd; match made in Heaven, right?

Anyways, that clue took me to the spot where we had our first kiss. Let me just tell you, its a beautiful and romantic place...
The parking garage around the corner from country swing dancing. Told you it was romantic. 
Just some background information, my man can dance, however country swing is not his forte. He would come to see me, even though I wouldn't dance with him until the very last song but yet he would keep coming. Anyways he walked me to my car one night, and so I told him I could drive him to his, but instead we ended up talking and he kissed me right before he left. Also this magical and majestic parking garage was where one night, we hung out in my car till about 2 or 3 in the morning and I sang the entire Rascal Flatts CD to him...oh and by the way, I get so nervous about singing. I really have no idea how that happened and he continues to ask what compelled me to do that, but he says he loved every minute of it..lets hope he was being honest because sorry honey, now you're stuck with my singing for life! 
That clue led me to his old house in Provo

Where we would roast marshmallows in the fire pit behind his house, where I would murder him at Mario Kart and we would cuddle on the couch in front of his house while it rained. 
The next clue took me to my old apartment at The Branbury
This is where Zac first told me that he liked me...and then I proceeded to date two guys after that. However a lot of great things happened here. We would play games, watch movies, make dinner, where he'd nurse me back to health after being sick and going to the hospital, where he helped me write my first talk in church, and helped me pack for the MTC. This is also where I first said "I love you" to him. 
This clue then took me to the MTC
Well actually the Provo LDS temple, since you cant really just walk onto the MTC campus anymore. Its where we took pictures and spent some of our last moments together before he and my two best friends (my lovely escorts) dropped me off at the Missionary Training Center...here's a flash back to that day

That clue wasn't much of a clue, it told me to tell Chelsea and Nellie that they would know where to go from there...I was then blind folded..
                                                 straight cheesin'

I had no idea where we were going. But I love surprises, and the fact that I hadn't ruined this one due to my own stupid curiosity impressed me...I was really excited, obviously. And I was just really anxious to see Zac.

which I did! Funny thing was I didn't know it was him at first, and in my head I was like his poor friend, I am squeezing his hand to death! And then he said "Do you know where you are?" and I was like Oh thank goodness its you! haha.



He had this wonderful dinner set up, with salmon, broccoli, potatoes, and bread with lemonade and ice cream. We ate dinner while he played a picture montage of our relationship, it was adorable.  

My favorite part of the entire proposal was when he said "I know how much your family means to you and I wanted them to be a part of this..so you have some important messages waiting for you on your phone." He then gave me my phone and inside there was texts from each member of my family telling me how much they loved me and how happy they were for me and Zac. I immediately started bawling.

He then got down on one knee and told me that he wants to spend the rest of forever with me and asked me to marry him. I told him it was a stupid question and I wouldn't have it any other way (:








WERE ENGAGED!!!




Yes I was crying haha


Oh and heres the ring! I am absolutely in love with it. Its rose gold, has a halo, and the band is ornate but not overdone and the profile is pretty to look at too. From every angle it is perfect. (:

I am one extremely lucky girl to be marrying this man. I can't wait, only 1 month, 19 days, 1 hour and 25 minutes left...

but whose counting? (:


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                                          The soon-to-be Mrs. Baxter

Thursday, October 17, 2013

Sister Missionary Packing List

Hey everyone! I know I have been kind of, okay, really MIA lately as far as the blog goes...and I apologize! I promise to write on a more frequent basis, I plan on making a post soon after this one, so don't get your undergarments in a bunch! However, I have been thinking oodles about the mission, and I remember how frustrated I was trying to figure out what I REALLY needed to get and purchase for the mish. They tell you 6-8 outfits, but really sisters...do they REALLY mean 6-8 outfits, and how are you supposed to survive off of that? So Im going to break it down and tell you what you really need, and if you're going to the MMM then you just got even luckier, you dog, you! Also remember, each mission is different and so the needs of each mission are different. I served in a cold weather mission that got very hot and humid in the summer, so my list mirrors the needs of that. So take this as a general guideline, hope it helps and happy packing! (:






Study Supplies:
-scriptures & a scripture case (seriously, get a scripture case, I didn't and it was annoying and then i'd occasionally and accidentally drop my scriptures, which we all know for each set of scripture dropped adds 10 lbs to your future husband, so if you drop your quad..thats an added 40 pounds, nobody got time fo' dat!)
-small PMG, also they give you a free large PMG in the MTC, GRAB IT. Although its bulky, I can promise you will want it for personal/companionship study in the mornings.
-patriarchal blessing
-4 Generation Pedigree Chart
-Personal Journal
-Study Journal
-Pens
-pencils (plans change, you don't want to be marking up all over your planner in a pen)
-Black sharpie, mark your clothes!
-post it notes (great to write out lessons and they are perfect size for your planner) 
-colored sticky notes (if you're an organizational whiz, you'll want this because you can color code each lesson in your scriptures) I didnt do this, but there were moments where I highly considered it.
-colored pencil marker
-stationary; envelopes, stamps

**I recommend TWO suitcases, instead of 3. Its a pain in the airport and in your apartment. however, make sure to bring a duffel bag for when you go on exchanges.

Clothing:
-6-8 outfits, seriously! I overpacked. (I'll explain in further detail down below)
-3 flats (black, white, and whateva' you like!), 1 pair of sneakers (pday and working out), and boots/ snow boots. You do NOT need to buy the expensive & not so cute clog like shoes that people encourage you to. I got my flats from sketchers and they worked perfectly and I got 3 pair for less than the price of one of those clog like shoes from sister missionary mall. Nor would I recommend high heels, you can if they are conservative, but I wouldn't recommend them.
-socks, regular socks for working out and the socks you wear with flats..trust me, you will want them, get nude and black.
-2 pairs of black tights
-2 pairs of exercise clothing, no this does NOT include tight spandex, you're a missionary.
-Pday clothing; 1 pants and 2 shirts
-a hoodie
-PJs
-cap sleeve undergarments (not meant to be worn alone, nor allowed to be) but they are great under shirts, get black and white. 
-garments (10-15 pair)
-Scarves, winter headbands, gloves
-A winter coat and a light jacket for fall-ish winter. 
-4-5 cardigans, my most worn ones were: gray, yellow, blue, tan/white. You have to wear a cardigan or a dress jacket to ALL meetings; i.e. church, zone & district meetings, interviews, baptisms, etc.
-Accessiories, keep jewelry simple and get a simple watch, watches should not be white.
*I would get 6 skirts; plain but fun colors. I wouldn't go all out with prints like I did because it limits the versatility of it. 
make sure to get a: black pencil skirt (but not too tight, youll be walking all day, I got mine from Target and it worked great), a dress, and a maxi skirt (cant be any longer than your ankles). Don't be afraid of the basic gray missionary skirt, you will end up loving it because it goes with so much. Also, you will want to try and get skirts with an elastic band, theyre just more comfortable. Second, if you find a skirt with pockets, you'll love it all that much more. Finally, I know its a rule, but some sisters overlook it, make sure your skirt covers your knees when sitting, you will feel more comfortable that way.
*I would bring 8-10 shirts..and I mean shirts that you KNOW will match ALL of your skirts or the majority of them. I probably wore my stripped shirts the most as you can see below. Also I would get a collared dress shirt..I got a light blue one, it just looks nice and you can wear it with mostly anything, but make sure its comfortable and not stiff feeling. As far as shirts go..If you have plain skirts, then you're more open to fun/different shirts..Just make sure they coordinate with your skirts and they are durable and comfortable. Do NOT get that sheer thin stuff, it will rip and you will not be happy. Make sure that the shirts you get look good tucked into a skirt because that is how you will be wearing them. Also no cap sleeves, its not appropriate for a missionary.

Where I got the majority of my mission clothes:
Stores: Walmart, Target, Mikarose, Asos.com, ShopRuche.com, Modcloth.com. Also don't be afraid to check out your local thrift stores, seriously. 



Personal:

-2 towels and a wash cloth, don't bother with a microfiber towel, they're expensive and you would only use it in the MTC, not worth it.
-bedding
-blanket
-makeup, the funniest part of your MTC experience will be your first sunday in relief society, they go over make up guidelines and they encourage you to wear make up and I do too. You're representing Jesus Christ, don't do it looking like you rolled out of bed!
-toothbrush, toothpaste, tongue scrubber, and floss, ACT mouthwash (:
-shampoo&conditioner
-feminine hygiene products
-deodorant
-lotion
-soap
-band aids and tape for blisters
-lint roller
-shaver
-face wash and face lotion
-hair brush and round brush
-blow dryer and straightener
-hair clips
-Chapstick
-nail kit, if you're bringing nail polish...keep it simple colors, like light pinks, nudes, etc.
-hair scrunchies and bobby pins
-dry shampoo
-medicine; if you have any prescription medicine or anything outside of the norm of ibuprofen or tylenol, call up your mission home and ask if it is allowed before you take it.

Miscellaneous:
-Purse, make sure to get a good purse, backpacks are no longer allowed. I got my purse from macys for $50. Well worth it, the brand is Tyler Rodan..it has plenty of pockets to put your wallet, camera, pens and pencils, maybe some make up, your planner, mints (because gum is NOT allowed) etc. The biggest thing was that the strap was sturdy. Heres a picture of my bag, It was probably my favorite, most used purchase for the mission:
-photo album(s), I made mine off of prinstagram.com..if you use instagram then this is perfect..seriously I got the mini photo albums made and they are PERFECT. 
-lanyard
-umbrella
-flashlight
-camera and flash drive/memory sticks
-cortizone or anti itch cream
-insect repellant
-rice/corn bag heating pad
-alarm clock
-laundry bag

As for the MTC; you get like 7 bucks a week to use in the bookstore, which is enough. I would recommend you get the following things: the clip for your badge, you will regret it if you dont, a mission T-shirt (for us state side missionaries they often run out or dont have them..so if they do, grab it while you can!), the Hi-Glide high lighters..they really are amazing for your scriptures and dont bleed through as much as normal high lighters
Also, if youre put on West Campus, dont be bummed..honestly be excited, its better then the main campus (yes, I spent time on both) and the food is better too!

*Also in regards to your bike, if you're in a bike mission, spend the extra 20 bucks to get a basket on your bike, it is killer to wear your purse or to figure out how to wrap it around your handle bars, plus it will often times cut up the bottom of your bag..and again, nobody got time fo' dat, especially a missionary!

*Important* Pack a willingness to serve with all your heart, might, mind and strength, to love and leave your companion better than you found her, a desire to act with 100% obedience, to love everyone, to never fear to open your mouth and share the gospel,  and to always have the faith to try.

If you have any further questions about clothing or grooming guidelines, comment below or just check out the website that The Church provides for you, it is great and tells you everything you need: https://missionary.lds.org/dress-grooming/sister/?lang=eng




Thank you for serving! (:




all my love,
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